Abu Dhabi: Jasour – News Desk
Today, December 3, the world celebrates the International Day of Persons with Disabilities. On this day, we cannot ignore the role of mothers of children with disabilities, and the need to provide them with adequate support to face the challenges they face.
Raising children in itself is a daunting responsibility for parents. But when a mother is responsible for a child with special needs, the task becomes even more complicated, as she faces double pressures. The pressure is not limited to the responsibility of the child only, but also extends to include the societal and psychological pressures that are exerted on her as well.
According to Psychology Today, parents of children with autism spectrum disorder often experience high levels of stress and mental and physical health problems.
Obtaining appropriate medical and psychological care for the child is also one of the major sources of stress for mothers, as they have to move between many medical and educational institutions to search for the best services that meet the needs of their children.
However, society views mothers as “superheroes” and they are required to perform all roles efficiently and with dedication. This pressure is added to their personal and professional lives, which greatly increases the burden on them.
Many mothers who raise children with special needs feel lonely and overwhelmed, which is a common feeling. However, there are some tips that may help them deal with these burdens better:
Make time for yourself: Take some time to take care of yourself. This is essential for understanding your feelings, organizing your thoughts, and taking care of your mental health.
Expressing your feelings: Don’t be afraid to express how you feel. Talk to your partner, a therapist, friends or family members you trust.
Remember that you are not alone: Your child’s behavior may be normal and common to many children, so do not feel ashamed of what happens in public places or family gatherings.
Awareness of your child’s condition: Make sure your child undergoes a specialist assessment to accurately understand his condition, which will help you plan for his future in a more effective way.
Individualized Tutoring: For some children with disabilities, individualized tutoring may be an option to relieve school-related stress.
Be patient: Individual differences between children require you to be extra patient while teaching your child and encouraging him constantly.
Engage in the community: Don’t isolate yourself and your baby from the world. Joining mother support groups gives you the opportunity to share experiences and get psychological support.
Asking for help: Raising a child with special needs is a big responsibility. Don’t hesitate to ask for help from friends or professionals when needed.
This day comes every year to highlight the importance of supporting people of determination and their families, especially mothers who bear the burden of daily challenges with patience and strength.
